Top 10 obvious signs that you are facing an asshole / a bitch

At some point in our lives, we all come to this somewhat bitter observation: we are surrounded by assholes. The whole thing is to spot them in order to get away from them and finally live the life we ​​deserve (the one where we are happy and where we frolic in the meadows while singing). For that, we can obviously notice the sentences of assholes pronounced here and there by our fellow men, but, sometimes, the signs that you are in the presence of someone bad are a little more subtle than that. Here are some of them that should serve as good big red flags and put you on the alert.

1. This person always plays the victim

It’s simple: as soon as she has a problem or a conflict, it’s never her fault. Basically, she never takes any responsibility. She lost her job? It was the boss who was a big jerk. She broke the salad bowl your grandmother left you? This is because it was misplaced. She caught your boyfriend? It’s because he was unfaithful (and he obviously turned on her). In short, she always has a good excuse.

2. This person prunes his buddies whenever they’re not around.

When Timothée is there, she loves him like a brother. When Timothée is no longer around, she does not hesitate to remind us that he is lisping, that his teeth are yellow and that he smells of onion soup. In this case, you can be sure that you too will take a lot as soon as your back is turned.

Top 10 obvious signs that you are facing an asshole / a bitch

3. When this person makes fun of someone it’s to laugh, when we make fun of him, it’s mean

With her, the humor only goes one way. She’s pretty much zero-level self-mockery, or expert-level touchiness, whichever you prefer. If you dare even once to throw a joke at her about her failed haircut or that piece of parsley she has between her teeth, you will awaken the dragon that lies dormant in her.

4. This person keeps bragging about being a beautiful person.

It’s a universal rule: good people don’t spend their time saying they’re good people. We didn’t hear Mandela say every five minutes: “Hey, did you see how well I fought against apartheid? »or Abbé Pierre launches: “More generous than me? Impossible. » No, good people just do good stuff. Those who brag are just looking for recognition.

5. According to this person, all of their exes are crazy

Each of her breakups is due to the disturbed mental health of her ex-partners, and of course not at all to the fact that she was undrinkable or disrespectful with them. Except that after a while, when you’ve gone out with 5 or 6 “crazy people” in a row, it’s either that you choose your partners very, very badly, or that you yourself are the problem.

Top 10 obvious signs that you are facing an asshole / a bitch

6. As soon as you tell a new thing you’ve done, this person has already done it (only better)

Have you been to New York? She crossed all the United States. Are you learning the guitar? She did 12 years of piano. Did you eat at a good restaurant yesterday? Once, she ate in a 2-star restaurant. Your experiences do not interest him but are good excuses to tell his own which are a thousand times better.

7. This person misbehaves with people they consider below them.

To flush out asshole behavior in a person, we can observe how he behaves with the waiters of a restaurant, or the employees of a store. If she doesn’t give them the slightest “hello”, “thank you” or “goodbye” and gives them as little importance as a potted plant, there are some conclusions to be drawn. He’s an asshole/a bitch (that’s the conclusion).

Top 10 obvious signs that you are facing an asshole / a bitch

8. This person devalues ​​the things and people you love.

For her, your friends are not good enough for you, your job is not rewarding enough, and this new pair of cowboy boots that you bought yourself (and of which you are super proud.e) look a little bad. Well, maybe sometimes she’s right and her warnings should be taken seriously (especially for cowboy boots), but when it’s repeated a little too often, it’s rather a big red flag.

9. This person never forgives anyone for anything.

But she obviously hopes to be forgiven for each of her mistakes. Anyway, if you follow well, you have understood that nothing is ever his fault.

Top 10 obvious signs that you are facing an asshole / a bitch

10. When you’re happy, this person brings you down from your little cloud.

It will be done by: “Oh it’s ok, don’t get carried away either” when you go out on a cool date, or from: “Wait anyway to see the face of your colleagues” when you just got a job. The kind of thoughts that make you feel a little worse when you were in a super good mood. The kind of asshole thoughts, after all.

Have we missed any other signs?

Besides that, you can learn to spot the right people, the ones you need to surround yourself with.

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